I don't have time

"I don't have time to hate the people who hate me, cause I'm to busy loving the people who love me"

another quote i came across recently that resonated with me, I have always been the type that really never cared what people think of me, what matters to me is what I think of myself. 

the only people that I feel I need to answer to are of course the Lord above, to myself and to my soul-mate and our children they are my tribe,my inner circle. 

I have come along way to this belief it's been hard because being the last of nine children I was always trying to be the "person who pleases everyone" well I finally came to the realization that you cannot please everyone it just is a difficult task to do no one is ever happy. so I discovered that my personal happiness the little things are what makes me happy is what I will focus on. 

I have lost some people from my way of thinking and have also gained some people, for those that I lost including some family well I wish them all the best in the world and for the new I have gained there is a reason we have crossed paths.

there is to much negative thinking in this world I choose to stay away from the negative as much as I can and only focus on the positive,some say that I am being kind of sap by that way of thinking If I am being a sap then so be it I would much rather have a positive vibe resonating in me then a negative one, for negativity only brings you stress. 

I am choosing the to try be stress free as much as humanly possible.

With a little faith, trust & pixie dust